SPANKING AND DISCIPLINE CLIENT REVIEWS AND FEEDBACK
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Note: While I am happy to receive and share feedback from my playmates, I never publish this information without direct, specific request by them. Even then, I sometimes choose to excerpt letters in order to remove personal information or session details.
I also request that playmates who consider posting reviews/feedback on sites other than this blogsite consider my privacy as well as your own when sharing...let's keep it discreet, gentlemen.
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Thank You for meeting with me on Monday. Everything exceeded my expectations and I am already looking forward to seeing you again. It was great for me because, I was able to put my trust in you and you guided me right thru the hour with your loving discipline. I was very sore but grateful afterwards and I thank you again. It was so refreshing to meet a true professional, who loves her work, really likes and understands men, and is a Class Act all in one. Looking forward to next time, if I can do anything for you in Chicago, please let me know.
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And, the moment that the spanking begins, knowing that it will continue for quite some time, until my bottom is hot and throbbing from the strict application of your hand, paddles and canes to my writhing, reddened bottom, fills me with both dread and joy.
And, after my punishment is complete, as I reflect on the sensual thrill of my punishment, I realize this is where I belong: in panties, over your knee, with a hot, red throbbing bottom, at your mercy, glad to be punished for your entertainment and amusement.
Thank you. I can’t wait to be over your knee again.
To read the entire content of this lovely letter from The Very Bad Boy, click HERE.
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As a classical pianist I have had the opportunity to play some of the worlds finest instruments but so rarely have I been played so exquisitely as by Ms. Dana Kane this last week. Friedrich Nietzsche said " Life without music would be a mistake...... but I say Life without Dana would be unbearable. I look forward to a future performance.
While the punishment itself was intense it was nothing compared to having to look Miss Kane in the eyes and reveal to her the details of my misdeeds. The confession took an hour and while she empathized with me, not once did she give me the impression that my behavior was anything other than unacceptable. The time finally arrived when I had to experience the full force and skill of Miss Kane’s ability. As promised the discipline was severe and as she so elegantly said “it will hurt like hell” which of course it did. If anyone thinks Miss Kane is unable to provide the severest of punishment they are sadly mistaken.
(from DanaKane.blogspot.com)
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Note: While I am happy to receive and share feedback from my playmates, I never publish this information without direct, specific request by them. Even then, I sometimes choose to excerpt letters in order to remove personal information or session details.
I also request that playmates who consider posting reviews/feedback on sites other than this blogsite consider my privacy as well as your own when sharing...let's keep it discreet, gentlemen.
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Via email, from a first-time playmate (October 12, 2012)
It was finally here Oct 10. It was a day I had been waiting for for a very long time. I was extremely nervous.
When my appoint time arrived I knocked on the door and a sweet Texan smile opened the door. She made me feel at ease from the second I saw her.
She took a few minutes to talk to me and put me further at ease. We laughed and I gave her her her birthday present, a paddle. Lord knows what I was thinking.
We moved to the play area and then the fun started.
She pulled me across her knee and gave me a nice warm up OTK with her hand. We had been talking about doing a short video about a new toy she had from her
friends at Can-iac . I tell you that thing stings like a swarm of bees. lol. after the video she pulled me back across her knee for a wooden spoon. we were having a great time. Then came the Delrin cain. OMG believe me that the laughing subsided for a few minutes. stroke after stroke landed on my ass. each hit was with deadly precision accuracy when she wasn’t getting the reaction that she wanted she pick a new spot, the thighs. when the first one landed my eyes lit up and I felt a rush wash over me. then the second one and a third forth each one felt like it was on on top of the one right before. I was biting my lip I have never felt so much fire before.
right when I didn’t think I was going to make it through another stroke, she moved back to my ass and I got to breathe again.
we finished up the night with the giant paddle I made her. Man she has a great softball swing LOL. A few hits later we were done.
we laughed, she gave me a great big hug. and we said our goodnights.
I have plans to go see her for my birthday. The Process is starting all over again.
I have just One thing to say.
Thank you for a great time Dana Kane I have not had that much fun in a long time.
Ps.
Is it January yet??
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Via email, from a longtime friend and playmate (June 25, 2012)
There may be spankers out there who are as wonderful as Dana Kane (I haven't found one yet) but I have found several who, though they were good, couldn't hold a paddle to her.
Though Ms. Kane's repertoire most certainly includes things, and intensities, with which I'm unfamiliar, her style, experience, and expertise, combined with her captivating beauty, tremendous intelligence, wit, humor, and numerous other unique qualities, have to place her at the top of her game and, for those fortunate enough to play with her, the heart of their bottom (and the bottom of their heart)!
Whatever level of spanking you like (I'd say I'm about medium-heavy?), Dana is sure to take you on a trip you will rewind in your mind and fantasy world for days to come. As I sit on my rather raw posterior today, I relive the memory of how magnificently she orchestrated this crescendo, starting with a lovely, rather tender bottom massage, working over-and-over with hand spankings ranging from delicate, through crisp and smarting, and ones that really hurt SO good! Each implement in her large arsenal was used to produce a plethora of sensations that rival the best of buffets. Butt [pun intended] it is her usage, technique and skill that continues to amaze me. She truly has a remarkable talent to make me take just enough more than I can stand -- and be ever so soothing afterwords.
Though Ms. Kane's repertoire most certainly includes things, and intensities, with which I'm unfamiliar, her style, experience, and expertise, combined with her captivating beauty, tremendous intelligence, wit, humor, and numerous other unique qualities, have to place her at the top of her game and, for those fortunate enough to play with her, the heart of their bottom (and the bottom of their heart)!
Whatever level of spanking you like (I'd say I'm about medium-heavy?), Dana is sure to take you on a trip you will rewind in your mind and fantasy world for days to come. As I sit on my rather raw posterior today, I relive the memory of how magnificently she orchestrated this crescendo, starting with a lovely, rather tender bottom massage, working over-and-over with hand spankings ranging from delicate, through crisp and smarting, and ones that really hurt SO good! Each implement in her large arsenal was used to produce a plethora of sensations that rival the best of buffets. Butt [pun intended] it is her usage, technique and skill that continues to amaze me. She truly has a remarkable talent to make me take just enough more than I can stand -- and be ever so soothing afterwords.
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Via email, from the VBB (April 29, 2012)
The VBB and The Wonderful Wife’s One Year Anniversary With Ms. Dana Kane.
The elevator doors opened and we hesitantly step into the small and somewhat scary looking elevator. As the elevator slowly made its way to the third floor we left behind the lobby of the building that sat on 32nd Ave in New York City. It stopped at the third floor for what seemed like an eternity before the doors finally opened. I stood behind my wife trying to hide behind her even though I am 6’4 and she is only 5’4. As the doors opened I saw the petite figure of Ms. Dana Kane standing in front of the elevator doors. She greeted us with a huge smile and called us by name. As we exited the elevator she gave my wife a big hug, I stepped back a bit nervously looking around the reception area and the long hall way which was lined with glass cases filled with paddles, whips, canes and other implements. She looked at me and waved me over and said, “Come over here and give me a hug.” That day was intended to be the one and only session I was going to have with her. However, at the end of the session and as I was preparing to leave, Dana said she would love to one day have a session with my wife and I.
Thus started a relationship with Dana that has progressed from the initial session to one of regular play partner, disciplinarian, confidant, mentor and a great friendship. We are now approaching a year since the first session I had with Ms. Kane. During the time we moved from New Jersey to Texas and was unsure if we would see Dana again. Not long after we arrived in Texas she made her first of many visit to her home state where we were once again reunited. During this past year our relationship has grown. The most significant event of our relationship was when I was told by my wife to contact Ms. Kane and request a punishment session from her to deal with some misbehavior I engaged in soon after arriving in Texas. The session, which was held in Austin, defined a whole new level of our relationship. She told me that day that I was now accountable to her along with my wife. That day she became my disciplinarian, not as a role-play character but as my actual disciplinarian. I am accountable to her on a monthly basis. When necessary she will assign me consequence for my actions and either have me preform the tasks or have my wife carry out some form of corporal punishment.
Over the past year we have had eight sessions with Dana, two serious punishment sessions and six play sessions to include some individual accountability time between Dana and myself. Along the way we have had a great time as we played. To date she has broken 15 implements on me to include a 1 and a 1/4 inch solid wooden heart shaped paddle. We have engaged in battles of wills, I have sent her a number of bratty emails, which she responded to in writing and with a good spanking from time to time. Both my wife and I have discovered the joys of twitter, which has also gotten me in trouble with her a few times already. We have shot a few videos together, I have written short stories, submitted some journal entries I kept as I awaited a punishment session with Ms. Kane. We have taken a number of pictures during our playtime all of which Dana has graciously allowed to be published on her blog site. Along the way we have made new friends, Erica Scott, Angel, Bobbie Jo, Spanked Cali and the folks at Spanking Court. We exchanged comments with those who have left comments on Dana’s blog and found some wonder spanking blogs as a result of her link.
Dana lovingly refers to my wife as the Wonderful Wife, which truly describes her. She refers to me as The Very Bad Boy or The VBB. Which she claims refers to my occasional naughty behavior and to my brattiness. Although, I think it should be changed to The Very Best Boy, but she shot that suggestion down and told me she is the only one who can change my name. We look forward to another great year with Ms. Dana Kane, this month I am taking both my Wife and Dana to Spanking Court so they can answer for a number of charges I have brought against them. It should be a fun and entertaining series. We are also planning on a very special series of spanking videos later this year, which I believe everyone will find quite enjoyable. So keep an eye out later this year for more details.
Thank you Ms. Dana for all the spankings, paddlings, whippings and strappings but not so much for the canings. Thank you for the fun playtimes, the serious punishment sessions and for the accountability time. Thank you for mentoring the Wonderful Wife and showing her how to be a true HoH. Thank you for your patience and for putting up with my bratty comments, emails and tweets. It’s all done in fun and always with respect for you and my wife. We look forward to an even greater second year as I find myself Cruisin' for a Bruisin.
The VBB and The Wonderful Wife
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A prize spanking from Dana
By UK Laureate (via email March 2012)
I’m writing this post as a tribute and thanks to Dana following my session with her during her visit to London, and to share my experience with the readers and followers of her wonderful blog.
For the record, I discovered Dana’s blog last May and immediately sensed that I’d discovered someone special. Just how special I quickly learnt as she sent a lovely reply to my message, and invited me to send in some writings. I began entering her contests and she was kind enough to publish various stories & poems. Over the months, reading her blog and watching her videos it felt as though I was really getting to know her - her humour, generosity and genuineness just shone through. When I spoke to her by phone the day before she left for London - the first time we had spoken - she said to me that she felt she knew me already through our correspondence, echoing my own feelings. She also said she was looking forward to flipping me over her knee! The day arrived, and I set off for my appointment, both excited and a tad nervous about meeting her for real. Readers, as some of you will know already, she is even more wonderful in person.
Her kindness in awarding me the prize for my entry to her Bedtime Story contest, which finished with that play on words about Bear bottom spankings, left me in no doubt about what to expect. What an exquisite spanker she is! Not only do her smacks range from gentle to extremely hard, she covered every inch, nay, every centimetre, of my bottom with her hand. You know that advert, “reaches the parts other beers cannot reach”? Well, Dana is the spanker who reaches parts of the bottom other spankers cannot (or do not) reach! Of course all the time she was commenting, making the cute remarks that are her unique trademark, and the hands that spank were also used so skilfully to stroke, massage, soothe and tease - until she was ready to increase the heat again.
As thanks for her generosity, three of the items I gave her were a riding crop from Harrods, a Loopy Johnny from London Tanners, and a leather finger ruler from Quality Control. For US readers, Harrods is a large store in an upmarket area of London, somewhat akin to Bloomingdales in New York. I thought something from there was a suitable momento of London. I’d read some time back of her liking for London Tanners products - and for her visit to London I guess that was appropriate too!. Of course I knew that giving such gifts was dangerous, in that she’d want to try them out immediately - and that Loopy Johnny looked an evil beast! I was not wrong, on either count. The items were soon put to use on my backside, already delightfully sore from the spanking, and by the time the ruler, crop and LJ had done their work I was positively glowing. She also treated me to some swats with a small rattan rug-beater and a similar Delrin version from Cane-iac; if you’ve not felt the latter, take it from me, it’s fierce, and leaves its mark!
However, the session was not finished. In my stories and writings I’ve not made secret of the fact that the rattan cane is my particular fetish. In many ways it is the quintessential English cp instrument, so when in London .... Dana did not disappoint. She had a selection of canes with her and soon demonstrated her outstanding prowess in using them. First she used a two-rod spray-cane “for a gentle warm-up”, followed by a further warm up with a thin-ish whippy rattan. Our playtime finished with me bending over to receive a stouter rod. She acknowledged that we English were raised on “six of the best” but insisted that US people work only on the decimal system, so it was 10 strokes, spaced at varying intervals. Dana surprised and delighted me by delivering numbers 4, 5 & 6 in rapid succession, machine-gun style, something that always takes me to a higher plane. Then the final four, delivered full-force but with ample time to recover between each stroke. The ‘end result’ can be viewed below.
Afterwards we talked a bit more until it was time for me to depart. Time goes so quickly when you’re having fun, and who could fail to have fun in Dana’s company? She told me it would amuse her to think of my sore bottom sitting on the train seat. In truth, the padded seats of the London Underground trains were quite comfortable but in central London I stopped to rest on a concrete bench-seat and definitely sat down too quickly - acute awareness of my rear-end came sharply to mind! And for the rest of the day, and beyond, I enjoyed that wonderful warm glow and the endorphin-induced high that only we spankophiles are privileged to know. It’s three days later now, I can still feel the after-effects of Dana’s hand and toys, and I still haven’t come fully down to earth.
I’m not a great lover of ‘management-speak’ but the phrase ‘win-win situation’ is just so apt for my spanking prize. I was treated to the warmest of welcomes and friendly conversation, my bottom was treated to Dana’s amazing skills, and my pleasure was all the greater because it was clear from her words and actions that Dana too was enjoying herself. That is the essence of a perfect play-session. To cap it all, this most wonderful lady also told me that she is hoping to come back to London later in the year, just as I have hopes of making it to Vegas at some future date. The thought that we can do it all again is music to my brain. Meanwhile, this chair is quite hard and I think I’ve been sitting on it a bit too long .....!
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Added September 14, 2011 (via email, by request)
Thank You for meeting with me on Monday. Everything exceeded my expectations and I am already looking forward to seeing you again. It was great for me because, I was able to put my trust in you and you guided me right thru the hour with your loving discipline. I was very sore but grateful afterwards and I thank you again. It was so refreshing to meet a true professional, who loves her work, really likes and understands men, and is a Class Act all in one. Looking forward to next time, if I can do anything for you in Chicago, please let me know.
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Added August 11, 2011 (via email)
Dear Ms. Kane -
It was wonderful being with you again the other day.
Two days later, as I sit here typing this, I can feel the tender, sensitive spots on my bottom - particularly that area where the top of my thighs meets my bottom. It is a wonderful reminder of the fantastic spanking and paddling you gave me.
I can't really describe the flood of sensations I experience being spanked and punished by you. The initial act of being caught in women’s clothing and lingerie immediately puts me in a submissive, embarrassed but excited state. Having to display my pink-pantied bottom to you while you chastise me for dressing like a sissy increases both my excitement and my embarrassment.
The soft silky feel of wearing panties and stockings is incredibly sensual but the realization that I am a man dressed in silky little panties, bra, high heels and stockings puts me in such a submissive state that I know the only place I should be is over your knee receiving a harsh paddling.
That moment of being placed over your knee; feeling the cool rush of air on my pantied bottom as my skirt is raised; the embarrassment and excitement as my panties are lowered to my knees and my bottom is exposed; the rush of anticipation, excitement and fear as I wait for that first stinging contact between my upturned bottom and your hand is exquisite.It was wonderful being with you again the other day.
Two days later, as I sit here typing this, I can feel the tender, sensitive spots on my bottom - particularly that area where the top of my thighs meets my bottom. It is a wonderful reminder of the fantastic spanking and paddling you gave me.
I can't really describe the flood of sensations I experience being spanked and punished by you. The initial act of being caught in women’s clothing and lingerie immediately puts me in a submissive, embarrassed but excited state. Having to display my pink-pantied bottom to you while you chastise me for dressing like a sissy increases both my excitement and my embarrassment.
The soft silky feel of wearing panties and stockings is incredibly sensual but the realization that I am a man dressed in silky little panties, bra, high heels and stockings puts me in such a submissive state that I know the only place I should be is over your knee receiving a harsh paddling.
And, the moment that the spanking begins, knowing that it will continue for quite some time, until my bottom is hot and throbbing from the strict application of your hand, paddles and canes to my writhing, reddened bottom, fills me with both dread and joy.
And, after my punishment is complete, as I reflect on the sensual thrill of my punishment, I realize this is where I belong: in panties, over your knee, with a hot, red throbbing bottom, at your mercy, glad to be punished for your entertainment and amusement.
Thank you. I can’t wait to be over your knee again.
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Added June 30, 2011 (from email) EXERPT
Spankos are often warned that fantasy is often better than reality, but sometimes reality is far greater than fantasy. What I experienced last week was a reality that out shined any fantasy I could ever come up with. The last time I had the privilege of seeing Ms. Kane was back in May when my wife left me in her capable hands for a very serious punishment session. At the end of our session I mentioned that my wife would be interested in getting together to play the next time she visited the City. Not in my wildest dreams could I have envisioned the reality that was in store for me when my wife and I went to see Ms. Kane this last week. While this meeting was more about playing than punishment I did manage to get myself into a bit of trouble before our visit. All I will say about that is it was not a wise idea on my part to read the e-mails between my wife and Ms. Kane especially after I was told I not to read them.
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As a classical pianist I have had the opportunity to play some of the worlds finest instruments but so rarely have I been played so exquisitely as by Ms. Dana Kane this last week. Friedrich Nietzsche said " Life without music would be a mistake...... but I say Life without Dana would be unbearable. I look forward to a future performance.
While the punishment itself was intense it was nothing compared to having to look Miss Kane in the eyes and reveal to her the details of my misdeeds. The confession took an hour and while she empathized with me, not once did she give me the impression that my behavior was anything other than unacceptable. The time finally arrived when I had to experience the full force and skill of Miss Kane’s ability. As promised the discipline was severe and as she so elegantly said “it will hurt like hell” which of course it did. If anyone thinks Miss Kane is unable to provide the severest of punishment they are sadly mistaken.
michael said...
- for all you spankos out there, dana kane is one of the best i have had, besides her power in her hand, she is truly one of the people that knows about what spanking is about, i have been with many pro disciplinarians, but dana is one of the best, her implements of hair brush, hand, straps paddles will give your bottom a rush you havent felt, im counting the days to see dana again. truly she is a conosuier of spanking
Added March 17, 2011 (from DanaKane.blogspot.com)
Dan said...
- I had the "pleasure" of being able to meet with Dana and she re-created some of my childhood mommy / son hairbrush spankings. If you're into having your naughy boy hiney spanked the "old fashion" way, then I highly recommend Dana Kane.
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Added February 2011, from email:
2 hours after the spanking - Wow! That is all I can say!
I’m sitting in the LAX airport and every time I move I am
reminded what a naughty boy I was and how you made me pay
for my misdeeds.
First, it was everything I dreamed it would be except for
one thing – it was not sexually exciting. I never had a
spanking that did not make me really horny, so this was a
surprise to me. I predicted it would be very emotional for
me, but I didn’t realize that would negate the typical sexual
feelings for me. Perhaps the length of the spanking negated
any sexual excitement I was accustomed to feeling. Please
note that I am not complaining about the lack of sexual
excitement: I am merely commenting how surprised I was.
In reflection the emotional release, and less importantly
to feel punished for my misdeeds, is what I truly needed.
I also never had a spanking that lasted this long. I did
have spankings that hurt as much as this morning, but mostly
because of skipping a warm up and starting with an implement
instead of the softer tissue of a hand. The spankings I
had that did hurt this much also hurt for a shorter period of time.
Maybe 50 with the bath brush then it was all over.
You were right that the tears during the spanking weren’t
really real. I was not faking tears in a feeble attempt to
receive leniency, but instead the whimpering was a way for me
to deal with the pain. But when it was over the tears
flowed freely and they were undoubtedly real. In fact,
I could not stop crying. I got in the car and broke down
again several times on the way to the airport. I should
have taken more tissues to blow my nose! Haha Speaking of
when it was over – I wasn’t immediately sure it was over!
I think the tears started when I realized it was over and
I was proud that I found the strength to make it through
the session.
I did weasel my way out of more pain at one time. When
asked to choose the least painful implement of the three
presented to me I honestly chose the one appearing least painful.
Realizing you then removed that from the equation I then
figured I had better label the most painful one of the
remaining two the least painful, hoping it would then get removed.
I already had the metal paddle and knew it hurt plenty,
so I faked a story about being afraid of the rivets on
the leather paddle. Did I make a good choice? I think so.
And I only tell you this knowing I’ll probably never see you
again and possibly earn extra punishment for misleading you! haha
The variety of implements you chose kept things fresh
and interesting. It is obvious you know how to use all
of them and I suspect your time spent as a sub makes you
an expert at reading your bottom’s emotions and state of mind.
Combining these skills with your first-hand experience of how
the implements feel has and will continue to make you a very
popular choice for the men that need to be spanked. Thanks
to you, many men will get the exact spankings they need.
I gave you a lot of information about me prior to our session
so you would have the ability to exceed my expectations – and you did.
Thank you very much for listening and reading my emails.
Your “customer service” skills are to be commended.
Speaking of hot, you are so beautiful and sexy! I love
thin women who still have a few curves and short hair.
Did you notice I was straining to peak to see more of you
when I was bent over? I think you did, because you
are very observant, and you immediately got into a position
that gave me another chance to see something. I believe
confidence is the ultimate aphrodisiac. You exude complete
confidence in everything you do and say. That was very sexy.
I sensed an incredible bond between us. I think you did too?
I’m proud that you broke not one, but two implements on my ass.
Hopefully that will contribute to making our short time
together memorable for you. I may be one of hundreds
or even thousands of bottoms for you, but you are one of only
four women to paddle my ass. And you by far did the best job
of it. I’m certain I will remember this morning for the rest
of my life!
(Dana's note: This boy requested - and received - a very heavy
punishment spanking. We had an amazing, emotionally charged session
that neither of us will ever forget.)
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