Friday, February 10, 2012
Conversations with Spankos: Chapter Six
For the last few months, I have been corresponding with a delightful lady who's exploring her spanking interest after many years of being in the closet, so to speak. Recently she asked my opinion on:
Topping from the Bottom.
Naturally, I have one..
I told my new friend that (at least in the context of my play) topping from the bottom is moot. For me, spanking is always consensual. We may role-play that you're reluctant to receive your spanking, or that you're a terrible and incorrigible brat, but the real truth is that the only reason I have the great pleasure of spanking my playmates is that they allow me to do so. Therefore, if they choose to brat, talk back, or generally try and control the scene, it is my job as top to discourage said behavior both verbally and physically. Topping from the bottom is impossible if I am in control, and the bottom's attempts to do so are not only amusing, but welcome.
My 'bottom' line? Without a bottom, there'd be no need for a top.
Tell me your opinion - what are your experiences (spankers and spankees alike) and opinions on 'topping from the bottom'. Please share your thoughts in the comment box below.